MARRIAGE

What is Marriage? Is it an old traditional thought to mate And have children or like the cool New generation say an outdated custom. Each one of us have a certain take on Marriage. I would like to bring light to a few positives of Marriage: - 1 When you enter into a relationship you open a door for someone to come and share a life with you. Then why does the same person you love and choose to share this sacred bond with become annoying, irritating and a reason for getting out of Marriage. 2 Marriage is not a contract that we signed up stating that i will stay with you only till the time things are steady smooth or till the time you and I are the same. There are differences that are bound to happen as you are two different people with different upbringing and thought process coming together to share a common space and relationship. That's the essence of Marriage that it brings two different individuals together and we have to learn to adapt, yes adapt not compromise with the positives but the flaws too. You can't expect only to have the nectar of Marriage but to sometimes you will chew on to the bitterness to. 3 Marriage is not just a piece of paper to lock yourself in a commitment to your partner. Yes it's a choice out of your will to commit and be loyal to your partner. Marriage is like a boat which has to be rowed from both sides so each partner has an equal an important role to play. 4 Lastly Marriage is Companionship someone who is more than a friend for you, whom you can celebrate your love, commitment, space & biggest of all your life. So this Valentine all the Married couples celbrate this special bond. And the Singles open yourself to this lovely space. Happy Valentine's By - Pooja Punjabi Psychologist & Hypnotherapist